Wednesday, March 27, 2024

Labels and Boxes

 


Labels and Boxes
By Annette Camp
March 27, 2024

Recently in an
online profile, 
I was asked
to select from
a dropdown
"up to" five
orientations.

Quickly scrolling 
through the list, I
immediately chose
Lesbian and Queer. 

However, the list
kept going on and on.
Some of them I knew:
sapiosexual,
homoflexible, 
asexual, bisexual 
and pansexual.

Others, though, I
had to look up,
because I have a
new-age curiosity.

Benignosexual.
Finsexual.
Fraysexual.
Gynesexual.
Noetisexual.
Aceflux.

Oh me, oh my. 
Then there was an
additional romantic
orientation category.

I won't go into all
of those. However,
I will say I'm
abroromantic.
There's no need to
look it up, because
it could change.

If you want a
play partner(s),
there are other 
options as well.

Unicorn.
Kajirus.
Stone top.
Cuckcake.
Hucow.
Vixen.
Gorean.

So many labels and
boxes. For me,
I just lead with 
love and kindness.





Sunday, March 24, 2024

Look Both Ways

 


Look Both Ways
By Annette Camp
March 24, 2024

When I 
saw her, I 
swiped right.

For chatting?
Friendship?
Something casual
or long-term
relationship?

My only focus:
that smile and
those blue eyes.

Attraction is
so much more
than physical.
Little did I 
really know.

It wasn't about
beauty really,
but a journey.

It was about
connection, 
exploration, 
adventure, 
and love. 

Daily choosing
to love another
unconditionally.

A loving 
unconventional 
relationship. 
No boxes 
or labels.

It was a daily
choice. Until
it wasn't. 

I've learned to
ask more questions,
and look both ways,
multiple times,
before crossing 
the street.



Saturday, March 2, 2024

Oh That Dream!



Oh That Dream!
By Annette Camp
March 2, 2024

And I was
having such
a good dream.

You woke
me from
that, why?

Oh I want
to go back
to my dream!

It has been
one of those
nights...