Holy Heartbreak

Holy Heartbreak

By Annette Camp

February 11, 2026

Today

I stood in the same air

as the woman who once 

carried his first child.

We did not recognize 

each other

by face

but by fracture.

There is a certain language

women learn

when they have been pushed

while holding life inside them.

It lives in the pause

before the truth is spoken.

In the way breath catches

at the word stairs.

We compared memories

like bruises held up to the light.

Pregnant.

Angry footsteps.

A shove that was never called a shove.

The terrible gravity of betrayal.

She lost her son.

I felt the sentence

land between us

like a small white coffin.

Mine lived.

Mine lived with a body 

that jerks and shouts

in rhythms he did not choose.

A nervous system that remembers

what my mouth tries to forget.

Tourette’s,

the doctors say.

Trauma has many dialects.

She is fifth generation faithful—

Kingdom Hall woven into her bones,

Watchtower ink in her lineage.

And now

disfellowshipped.

A word that sounds like exile

because it is.

Cast out.

Just like me.

Two women

thrown from staircases

and later from sanctuaries.

When I told her

I was writing a book—

about losing my ministry,

about coming out for the 

second time in one lifetime—

I watched her eyes widen

as if heaven itself

had shifted.

The dots connected.

Not coincidence.

Not chance.

Pattern.

The same man.

The same violence.

The same God invoked

to keep us silent.

And here we were—

two former wives,

two mothers,

two lesbians,

two survivors

standing in the wreckage

of doctrines and drywall.

Holy heartbreak.

Because there is 

something sacred

about truth

finally spoken aloud.

Something holy

about women

refusing to carry shame

that was never theirs.

Her grief and mine

sat down together.

Her son who never grew.

My son who lives loudly.

Both of them

evidence.

We were never crazy.

Never dramatic.

Never the problem.

We were women

who were pushed.

And yet

we stand.

Not in a Kingdom Hall.

Not at the bottom of the stairs.

Not beneath his shadow.

We stand in recognition.

In shared story.

In the quiet, trembling miracle

of finding each other

after surviving the same fall.

The Sound of Leaving

The Sound of Leaving

By Annette Camp 

January 23, 2026

I rush to his bedside

His breathing arrives in pieces—

wet, uneven,

Each gurgle pulls at something in my chest,

as if my body recognizes

what my mind keeps refusing.

He tries to clear his throat,

again and again,

as though the words are caught just behind it,

panicking.

I lean closer,

not because I expect to understand,

but because being near feels like

the last useful thing I can do.

His eyes search my face

with a sharp, restless urgency.

They ask questions I can’t answer.

They hold fear,

and a need so raw it hums between us.

I tell him I’m going to get help,

get family, get hospice, get meds,

get whatever I can...

His mouth opens.

Nothing comes out.

The effort is visible—

his whole body seems to lean forward

toward speech that no longer belongs to it.

The silence afterward is loud,

heavy with everything unsaid.

His legs twitch,

arms shifting without permission,

small rebellions of muscle and nerve.

The movements linger,

as if his body hasn’t been told

what the ending is yet.

I feel the helplessness settle in my bones.

Love becomes 

standing guard over a moment

that cannot be fixed,

only held.

And so I hold it—

his gaze,

the sounds,

the trembling air between us—

knowing this is what remains

when words fall away

and all that’s left

is being present

as he drifts

toward a place

I cannot follow. 

A Little Cry Together

A Little Cry Together 

By Annette Camp 

January 10, 2026

He says it plainly,

as if naming the weather.

Today he said,

“I’m going to die a skeleton

in a little box,”

and the words fall heavy,

unfinished,

like he’s already halfway gone.

Then the crying comes—

not loud,

just steady,

like something leaking

that can’t be sealed anymore.

We have a little cry together,

the kind that doesn’t try to be brave,

the kind that admits

this hurts too much to carry alone.

I tell him I’m here.

Not with answers.

Just here—

to sit beside him, 

to let the quiet hold us, 

to offer the small comfort I can, 

to help hold the ache he carries.

My voice is steadier than I feel,

but it is real.

His breathing changes.

The crying loosens its grip.

His body chooses rest

before his mind does.

He falls asleep

while I am still watching,

still holding the moment

as carefully as I know how.

For now,

this is what love looks like:

staying,

listening,

and not leaving

when the truth is hard to hear.

Quiet Witness

Quiet Witness 

By Annette Camp 

January 20, 2026

Today—

with his mind loosening its grip,

my father looked at me and said,

“You’re the first angel I’ve ever seen.” 

I let the words stay with me.

Although it was a vision.

when he named me—

at the very edge of his leaving—

I understood.

Some angels are not messengers of God.

Some are simply witnesses.

And in that moment,

standing beside my dying father,

I was reminded—

I have watched my mother die of cancer.

I have held my grandmother’s hand,

felt it cool in mine as her world

narrowed because of cancer.

So much loss.

So much leaving.

And still,

I stand here—

the one who remains.

I have learned how to be present

at the threshold,

how to hold a hand,

how to listen

when words are breaking apart.

If I am an angel,

it is only this:

I stay until the end.

...a single tear loosens,

and without sound,

I let it fall.